Debunking Common Myths About Infertility

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Clarifying Myths About Infertility with Evidence-Based Facts 

Infertility affects 1 in 6 couples  yet remains surrounded by misunderstanding. As conversations about reproductive health become more open, it's essential to replace misinformation with medically accurate guidance. 

At the Southern California Center for Reproductive Medicine (SCCRM), we’re committed to helping patients understand the science behind fertility. Below, we address the most common fertility misconceptions, correct widespread myths about infertility, and share what truly impacts conception.

 

Myth #1: “It’s easy to get pregnant” 

Fact: Even under ideal conditions, the chance of conception per cycle for a healthy couple under 35 is 15–20%. Fertility relies on precise timing of ovulation, sperm quality, and embryo implantation—factors that can vary each month. 

Myth #2: “Infertility is on the rise” 

Fact: While the incidence of infertility has remained stable, awareness and public dialogue have increased thanks to medical advancements and advocacy. 

Myth #3: “Infertility is a female problem” 

Fact: Infertility is equally split: 

  • 40% female factor 

  • 40% male factor 

  • 10% combined 

  • 10% unexplained 

Comprehensive evaluation of both partners is essential to determine the root cause. 

Myth #4: “I can wait until I’m 40” 

Fact: While fertility naturally declines with age—especially after 35—there are ways to be proactive. Understanding your fertility timeline can help you make informed decisions, whether that means trying sooner, exploring fertility preservation like egg or embryo freezing, or working with a specialist to create a personalized plan. Knowledge is power when it comes to future family building. 

Myth #5: “Weight doesn’t affect fertility” 

Fact: Body weight can play a key role in reproductive health. Both higher and lower BMIs can affect hormone levels and ovulation, but the good news is that even small, sustainable changes to weight can make a big difference. Many individuals see improved ovulation and pregnancy outcomes with lifestyle adjustments—support is available to help you get there. 

Myth #6: “IVF is the only option” 

Fact: IVF is highly effective but not the first step for most. Many patients begin with: 

  • Ovulation induction (e.g., clomiphene,  letrozole or FSH) 

  • Timed intercourse 

  • Intrauterine insemination (IUI) 

Your treatment plan at SCCRM will be customized based on your age,  medical history and diagnostic findings. 

Myth #7: “Fertility treatment leads to multiples” 

Fact: The risk of twins or triplets has dropped significantly with elective single embryo transfer (eSET) and improved embryo grading. At SCCRM, our goal is safe, singleton pregnancies. 

Myth #8: “I already have a child, so I’m not infertile” 

Fact: Having one child doesn’t guarantee future fertility—this is known as secondary infertility, and it’s more common than many realize. The encouraging news? With the right support and evaluation, many people experiencing secondary infertility go on to have another child. If you’re struggling, you're not alone—and help is available. 

Myth #9: “Birth control causes infertility” 

Fact: While hormonal contraception suppresses ovulation but does not affect long-term fertility. Many patients resume regular cycles within 1–3 months of discontinuing use. 

Myth #10: “Fertility treatment is too expensive” 

Fact: Many patients have insurance coverage for evaluation and treatment. SCCRM offers transparent financial counseling and cost-saving programs to support access to care, with discounts offered to teachers, first responders, law enforcement and current / former members of the armed services 

Myth #11: “All fertility centers are the same” 

Fact: Clinics vary in expertise, technology, and success rates. Look for: 

  • Live birth rates (not just pregnancy rates). Check national SART (Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology) statistics for individual IVF centers 

  • Physician credentials 

  • On-site labs and advanced testing options 

  • Access to innovations like PGT and fertility preservation 

 

When to Consult a Fertility Specialist 

We recommend evaluation if: 

  • You are under 35 and have tried to conceive for 12 months 

  • You are 35 or older and have tried for 6 months 

  • You are 40 or older 

  • You experience irregular cycles, known reproductive issues, or have had prior pregnancy loss 

 

Expert Care from SCCRM 

At SCCRM, we combine leading-edge technology with compassionate, individualized treatment. If you’re struggling to conceive or simply want clarity, we’re here to help. 

Schedule a consultation today and take control of your fertility journey with confidence. 

 

Medical contributions by

 
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Robert E. Anderson, M.D.

Double board-certified
Obstetrics and Gynecology, Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility

With over 30 years experience in the field of Reproductive Medicine, Dr. Robert Anderson has developed a highly successful approach to the treatment of every type of fertility problem. He has been practicing in Orange County longer than any other Board Certified Reproductive Endocrinologist.

Meet Dr. Anderson

 
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Don Royster, M.D.

Double board-certified
Obstetrics and Gynecology, Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility

With over 15 years of experience as an OB/GYN and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility (REI) specialist, Dr. Don Royster joined SCCRM after serving on active duty in the United States Air Force for over 20 years, retiring at the rank of Colonel. He has performed over 6,000 surgeries and delivered over 1,000 babies with deployments and humanitarian missions across the globe. 

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